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Our inboxes are overflowing, our feeds are cluttered, and attention spans are roughly the length of a TikTok hook. So when brands show up in the DMs? It better be worth the tap.
That’s where automated direct messages come in—not as spammy bots firing off coupon codes, but as smart, human-feeling touchpoints that start conversations, guide discovery, and yes, drive serious conversions.
To unpack what it takes to build a DM strategy that doesn’t make people run for the “block” button, we sat down with Alexus from Vista Social.
Alexus Brittain is the Head of Social Media at Vista Social who’s been making B2B content actually engaging for the past three years.
With five years of professional experience in social media, Alexus has been living and breathing this stuff since she got her first phone, basically making her a social media native with serious professional chops.
In a world full of corporate social media that feels soulless, Alexus proves that even B2B brands can have personality, spark real conversations, and build communities that people actually care about.
In this article, we’ll explore:
- How to build a smart, scalable DM funnel
- The biggest mistakes brands make with automation (and how to avoid them)
- The secret to making your messages feel personal, even when they’re not
Whether you’re new to DMs or want to turn your social inbox into a goldmine, this one’s for you.
How Do Automated DMs Actually Work
What exactly are automated DMs, and how can brands use them effectively on platforms like Instagram and TikTok?
Automated DMs are like having a really smart assistant who never sleeps and always knows exactly what to say at the right moment.
Think of them as pre-programmed conversations that get triggered by specific user actions—maybe someone comments a keyword on your post, engages with your story, or sends you a DM.
What makes them magical is that they can create the illusion of one-on-one conversation at scale. I’ve seen brands use them to instantly deliver exclusive content, guide users through product discovery, or even create interactive experiences that feel like you’re texting with a friend who happens to have insider access to amazing deals.
The key is treating them like the opening line of a real conversation, not a billboard.
“When someone comments ‘INFO’ on your skincare post, instead of just sending a generic product link, you can trigger a DM that says ‘Hey! I saw you’re interested in that serum – quick question: are you dealing with dryness or more concerned about fine lines? I want to make sure I point you to exactly what will work for your skin.’”
Why Automated DMs Work So Well
- Triggered by real-time behaviour, not bulk sends
- Deliver instant value at scale
- Spark conversations, not just clicks
- Feel personal, even when pre-set
- Adaptable to content delivery, support, discovery, or lead generation
Building a Smart DM Funnel
From a strategy point of view, how should brands approach building their DM automation funnel? Are there any golden rules when it comes to mapping out a DM journey?
Building a DM funnel is like choreographing a dance – every step needs to flow naturally into the next. I always start with the “why” – what specific problem are we solving for the user at each stage?
My golden rule is the “3-Touch Rule”: within the first three messages, you need to:
- Deliver value
- Gather information
- Create anticipation
Message one hooks them and delivers immediate value. Then message two gets personal by asking questions or segmenting based on their needs. Message three creates urgency or exclusivity that moves them toward conversion.
But here’s what most people miss – you need multiple entry points. Don’t just rely on comment triggers. Create DM funnels for:
- Story interactions
- Post comments
- Freebie requests (even from non-followers)
Each entry point should feel native to where they came from.
I also swear by the “conversation branching” approach. Instead of linear messages, create paths based on user responses:
- If someone says they’re a beginner, they get different follow-ups than someone who’s advanced.
- If someone skips a question, reroute them without forcing them to backtrack.
This makes every conversation feel tailored, even though it’s automated.
The biggest mistake? Making the funnel too long. People’s attention spans in DMs are even shorter than in emails. Get to the point, provide value, and always give them a clear next step.
Top Campaigns & Creative Use Cases
What are some of the most impactful ways you’ve seen automated DMs used in a campaign? Could you walk us through a few standout use cases or case studies?
Oh, where do I even start? I’m obsessed with how creative brands are getting with this.
One of my favourite campaigns was for a sustainable fashion brand that created an entire “style quiz” through DMs.
Users would comment “STYLE” on their posts and get taken through this personalised journey where the bot would ask about their lifestyle, body type, colour preferences, but it felt like chatting with a stylish friend. The magic happened when they’d send outfit combinations based on the answers, complete with styling tips and even seasonal recommendations. Their conversion rate was 40% higher than traditional email campaigns.
Then there’s this wellness brand that used DMs to create “accountability buddies.”
People could comment “BUDDY” and get paired with daily check-ins, motivation quotes, and progress tracking – all automated but feeling incredibly personal. They turned their DMs into a support system that had people coming back every day.
My absolute favorite though was a local bakery that created “recipe roulette”.
For example, you’d DM them and get a random family recipe with a story behind it, plus a discount code if you wanted to try their version. It turned their DMs into this treasure trove of culinary stories that people would share with friends. Pure genius.
What These Campaigns Got Right
Every campaign felt thoughtful, fun, and genuinely personal despite being automated.
- Style quiz: Created an engaging, quiz-like experience that led to 40% higher conversions
- Wellness buddy system: Fostered community and habit-building with daily automated check-ins
- Recipe roulette: Combined surprise, storytelling, and discounts to build loyalty and virality
Mistakes to Avoid with Automated DMs
We know there’s a fine line between helpful automation and spammy overkill—what are the biggest mistakes brands make with automated DMs, and how can they avoid them?
Ugh, I’ve seen so many brands completely butcher this. The biggest mistake is treating DMs like email blasts – just pushing promotional content without any regard for the conversational nature of the platform.
Here’s what kills me: brands that send the same generic message to everyone, regardless of how they entered the funnel. If someone comments “PRICE” on your post about a luxury handbag, don’t send them the same welcome message you’d send to someone who just followed you. Context is everything.
Another huge mistake is over-messaging. I’ve seen brands send five to seven messages in their initial sequence, then wonder why people block them.
The rule I live by:
- If you wouldn’t send that many texts to a friend you just met,
- Don’t do it to your customers.
The worst offender, though? Brands that don’t give users control.
- Always include opt-out options
- Respect when people say “stop”
- Never re-engage someone who’s clearly not interested
You could always include something like “Reply STOP anytime to pause these messages” in your automations.
Pro tip: Test your own sequences. Actually go through them as a user would. If you feel annoyed or overwhelmed, your audience will too.
Making Your DMs Feel Human
The most successful automated DM strategies always maintain that human touch. It’s the difference between feeling like you’re talking to a brand versus feeling like you’re texting with a knowledgeable friend.
- The most effective DM strategies follow the “3-Touch Rule” – delivering value, gathering information, and creating anticipation within the first three messages.
- Successful campaigns, like the style quiz, wellness buddy system, and recipe roulette examples, demonstrate how automation can feel personal while scaling your messaging.
- To avoid common pitfalls, remember to personalize based on entry points, keep message sequences concise, always provide opt-out options, and maintain a conversational, human tone.
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